From Dan
My goal for this Thanksgiving is to stay off my phone and try to be as present as possible. I hope you'll join me!
YES, like you, my cousin will argue that birds aren't real, they are government surveillance.YES, my uncle is going to try to convince me that we should drill for oil on public lands in the name of energy independence. SURE, other family members will talk about reality TV and regard the relationships as something real instead of manufactured drama made to have us all sit slack-jawed in front of the TV and not focus on real problems!
To be fair, I'm sure certain members of my family will be thinking, "Great, we have to listen to Dan talk about Jerry Garcia for 45 minutes" or "Can't wait to hear about his grammatically-incorrect newsletter!" or "Why does he allow his continued desire to prove himself create a locked cage of productivity, leading to his 5th episode of burnout and crisis of conscience? Time to grow up buddy!"
Ahhh.....family.
Well let me make a proper defense for my own and yours this Thanksgiving if we're feeling a little uneasy:
- In 2009, smartphones began to enter our pockets.
- Around 2012, the "apps" (see: facebook, instagram, twitter) arrived on these phones.
- Over the next decade, ALMOST EVERYONE GETS ONE.
- Smartphones slowly become our companion, move to the center of our life, and begin to quietly exploit us while stealing our attention away from the people who matter.
For god's sake, I have to work to keep my screen time below four hours today. In 2012, I spent an hour on my phone and most of that hour was talking to someone I liked!
We have all been changed radically, and I'm not sure it's for the better. Yes, we may now know more about our favorite subjects and the internet is our modern day Library of Alexandria, but at what cost? At the cost of those closest to us?
Let's unite this Thanksgiving by having a discussion around the table about what we have in common:
- Billionaire Technocrats creating algorithms to predict and therefore greatly influence our way of thinking, feeling, being.
- The need to rise up in the face of this and create a world that holds them accountable for the social and cultural damage they've done.
- Developing greater awareness around our technology use and trying to divorce ourselves from our harmful patterns.
- Banning phones from all K-12 schools and all the good it will bring.
- How being in person with one another and developing greater understanding of how this has affected each other is essential to our future.
Check out Jonathan Haidt's take on this to get you prepped and ready:
I hope you all have a splendid, slow-paced Thanksgiving and throw your phones in a river, stream, or lake.